What is the Best Dating Advice for Guys

If you want to get the girl, follow a girl’s advice. A woman knows what women want. I collaborated what all my girlfriends agree on about dating men into 5 basic tips. Check out my dating advice for guys and find romantic success!

guy and girl on a date

Forego the pickup lines.  No matter what, resist the urge to say a pick up line. Don’t even say one in a joking manner. Women find them corny and pathetic. Pick up lines give off the impression that you are a womanizer, and no woman will go on a second date with a guy like that.

Be modest. Never brag about yourself when on a date with a girl. Girls want guys who have humility and discretion. That doesn’t mean not to tell her about yourself, always be honest and forthcoming but in a humble way.

Be chivalrous.  While women these days like to be independent, showing kindness and chivalry will get you miles ahead of other guys. Open the door for a girl (including the car door) and always let her walk into a room first.  When walking on the street, you should always walk on the outside by the curb. If she doesn’t offer to pay or split the check, you should plan on paying.

Be interested in her. This doesn’t mean to fake interest, you have to actually BE interested in who a girl is and what she is like. A girl can tell the difference between general interest and questions enthused by ulterior motives. Girls respond to guys who invest in them. Ask her questions and learn about her, take her on dates where you talk and spend time together. Be curious about her friends and family, her pets, career and hobbies.

Don’t be too deep too soon.  Obviously girls like there to be depth and passion to a guy, but I have seen too many men overwhelm girls with their intensity.  Find a nice balance between being fun and goofy and serious and insightful.  Don’t share too little, but don’t share too much right at the beginning either. Use discretion in conversation and say things when it is appropriate to say them.  

Let me give you an example of what not to do: I once had a guy pause an action movie we were watching to tell me that he was deeply passionate about reconciliation of the church.  Now that is just fine if he is, but telling me this the first time we were hanging out in the middle of a movie that had nothing to do with reconciliation was just too much. I never wanted to hang out with him again.

If you follow these 5 dating tips girls will stick around and give you a chance.