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Finding the perfect gift for your special woman can be a challenge. There are so many options marketed solely for women and yet you are overwhelmed with mediocre choices. As a woman who knows what women want, here are 5 tips for buying a women a gift
Meaning and Memories
It is best to give women gifts that have meaning behind them. Did you share a wonderful year together? Is it your anniversary? A scrapbook of pictures of your first year together will win any girl's heart. Or try recreating what you did on your first date together. She will be touched to see that you really do care and remember. The key is to show thought and meaning behind the gift.
Do more than a gift certificate
Giving a woman a gift certificate to her favorite store is always a great choice - but include you taking her there and shopping with her in the gift. Quality time is a sure way to win over your woman. Avoid giving cash - it is very tacky and shows little thought. It looks like a last resort.
Pay Attention to Hints
If you know you are going to be needing to buy a gift for a woman, really pay attention to things that she remarks that she likes or wants or remembers having a good time doing. Women are blatant and obvious because they often know what they want and don't think that the man will figure it out if they don't drop hints. Unfortunately, many men still do not pick up on the hints because they are very subtle. Blame it on different styles of communication.
Don't ever re-give a gift unless it is flowers or candy
Even if a gift was a huge hint last time, it is not safe to assume she will love it again. While that may work for you, women desire new thoughts and symbols of appreciation. The one exception is flowers and candy. If a woman has a favorite flower and favorite type of candy, it means a lot to her for you to give her the favorites. Instead try giving her the favorites in a more creative way than last year. However, if all you give her is flowers and candy she will be disappointed. They should always be supplementary gifts.
Avoid giving household items
A cooking pot or specula for a gift are not things that most women will really be excited about. They may need them - but not want them for their birthday, your anniversary or Christmas present. It would be as if you were giving a gift to her that you need. The modern women views household items as something the man and woman share. It is very unromantic to give a household item as a gift.
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